Women who have multiple sex partners before marriage are indulging in forbidden fruit {sin}. Women who are married and denying their husbands frequent sex are also indulging in forbidden fruit {sin}. The Bible clearly tells us to render due benevolence {sex} to each other as a way of escaping temptation.
There are many women out there who were promiscuous before they were married. Once they are married, they don't seem to enjoy sex anymore or need time to "heal" from their past sexual experiences. Denying your husband sex, except for a time of prayer or illness, is sin.
Some women wait until their wedding night to have sex but later on, tire of it and don't want it much anymore. This too is sin. When we are commanded to obey our husbands, it includes giving them sex frequently since that is how often most men want it.
They may have been virgins when you married them so you reason they exercised self-control in that area before marriage so they should be able to after they are married. Not so! Now they have a woman in bed with them {their wife} and deserve to have frequent sex with her.
One woman I mentored hadn't given her husband sex for four months because she's pregnant and was told not to have sex. This is asking for trouble. I told her she needs to give her husband sex, just be creative. A young man shouldn't have to wait four months to have sex!
So now that you know not giving your husband frequent sex is sin and you don't want to walk in sin, start making your husband happy. IT ONLY NEEDS TO TAKE TEN MINUTES!!! That is not much of a sacrifice to have a happy husband.
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence {sex}: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife has not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband has not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency {lack of self-control}.
I Corinthians 7:3-5
