She's a working mama and has a great question concerning working mamas. "I'm a nurse. The truth is, most men won't do this work {only 5% of nurses are men}. I feel called to serve God and others by nursing and being kind to my patients. If mamas don't work, who would be the nurses? Who would clean the poop and be gentle with the old people who have dementia?"
Children only get one mama. Children need their mamas more than the elderly. Children want to be raised by their mamas. God wants mamas home raising their children. It takes a lot of time to raise children to love Jesus, to have good manners, to be self-controlled and disciplined. This is a job for mamas.
Women who have never married make great nurses. Women who are married and haven't had children make great nurses. Women whose children are all grown up make great nurses. There are many women who can be nurses who aren't raising children.
Childhood is fleeting. I would not have wanted to miss my babies' first smile, their first tooth, their first step, their first word, or any other of their firsts. I wouldn't want anyone else disciplining or raising my children. I gave life to them and I wanted to raise them.
If you have any possible way to raise your babies, I encourage you to do it. No one can take your place. Fathers are great but they are not mothers. Mothers have a nurturing, gentle spirit that God gave them to raise children. I loved having my mom home full-time to raise me. It was truly a gift from God.
I will therefore that the younger women marry,
bear children, guide the house,
give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
I Timothy 5:14
kathy · 602 weeks ago
We all see how a lot of two income families live these days. I for one will not be fooled into their excuse that they couldn't get by on one income. It's a matter of choices. I with you believe many are making the wrong choice.
The break down of the family is one of the most, if not the most, detrimental things that has happened to our society. So many people don't want to look at this. They turn away from the salt of the earth. The healing and yet sometimes painful salt.
Thank you for offering light and salt to all of us who take the time to read your wonderful advice. You offer all of us healing. It is up to each of us if we want to accept it. It's definitely not always easy. I for one think it's worth it.
Thanks again.
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Amy · 602 weeks ago
God always provided. Because of my mom's great example, I am now following in her footsteps as a stay at home mom. I appreciate her so much more now that I am a mom.
Elizabeth Olmstead McBride · 602 weeks ago
Nursing is a profession, a vocation to which one is called. Not everyone is called to be a nurse. Many of the women without children you refer to haven't felt to called to be nurses. Not everyone can be a nurse.
What happens when a father dies, becomes disabled, or walks away? Is the nurse mother supposed to stay home and live on the public dole? I'll tell you what I did. I went back to work. And because I had the wisdom when I was younger to not only become a R.N. but to get my B.S. in nursing I was able to be a school nurse. I raised 3 children who I dare say are as every bit kind, loving, disciplined, self controlling, and church going as your children.
Joluise · 602 weeks ago
My mum worked and I never felt disadvantaged at any stage of my growing up - my mum and dad (jointly) created a stable loving Christian home and that's what is important. Having a SAHM doesn't guarantee this any more than a working mother. And yes, I have raised 2 beautiful children and worked - I am proud of how they have turned out as adults.
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Shannon · 602 weeks ago
One of the great things about nursing is that it has many forms. It's entirely possible to stay at home full time and still work as a nurse. I know many women who work just one or two weekends a month (while their husbands are home).
There are also a lot of nursing positions (things like chart reviews, research-related tasks, etc.) that can be completed from home.
In taking these approaches, moms can bring in much-needed income and keep up their skills in case they'd like to return to the workforce--and serve--when the kiddos are grown up.
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Titus 2:3-5
"Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God."
Candi · 600 weeks ago
Mrs. Abella · 600 weeks ago
I agree with Lori on this--it is not the best option for the parent who wants to stay home with their kids. In nursing you are worked to death, understaffed for the amount of patient load, and you can't be what your kids need when you're dragging and worn down and injured. How can you be what your children and husband need if you're like that?
Once my bio son and stepchildren are all raised and gone on to their own homes, I may return to nursing...but while they are home...no on your life.
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