Monday, September 30, 2013

Ravenous Wolves


Some people come cross as mean and hateful when they disagree. Whenever I write a post, I never know what the response will be.  I just write my opinions and try to stay within God's Word to guide me.  When I wrote A More Innocent Time, several minutes after it was published, I recieved this email, "One day, Lori, you will have to stand trial before the Lord for all the wicked things you spew on His children and especially on His daughters!"  I simply deleted it and moved on.

I started getting a lot more mean emails and could not fathom why this post would create such a backlash.  I know I have websites that hate everything good, moral, and decent that mock me.  I am use to it and don't let it stop me.

To be clear, my commentary was on a Hallmark movie that was a portrayal of more decent times in our country as I stated in my post ~

It is set in a time in our history when sexual immorality was not nearly as common and society wasn't hyper-sexualized like it is today. I imagine it was a much easier time to remain sexually pure. The music was decent and romantic.  No vulgar words. Divorce was rare.  Parents stayed together and raised their children.  Yes, it is easy to romanticize those days and look back with nostalgia but God has placed us here, in this day, for His purposes.  They had their struggles and we have ours.

That afternoon, I asked Ken to read my post and tell me if I was out of line.  When I asked him, he was already responding to some of my critics.  He wrote ~

I have no clue what world a few commenters are living in, but to think that the world is not running headlong into the End Times is to be out of touch with reality. Evil is always present in the world, but there was a time in the U.S. where churches were filled, neighbors who knew each other and acted like a church, even with unbelievers. Doors were never locked, kids played out in the streets and hope abounded. 

Fast forward to today and see that right is wrong and wrong is considered right in so many areas of our society. Abortion is acceptable to half the nation, and with it shacking up is almost the norm for even Christian kids. Being gay is not only considered an acceptable lifestyle, it is honored and glorified on TV, the media and legislated to be something wonderful. Alcohol is now replaced with a myriad of special drugs, and even our kids are loaded up with cocaine like drugs to keep their behavior in check and their grades at a high standard. 

The list of degradation in our country from 50 years ago to today is almost endless with prisons filled, divorce rates through the roof and everyone doing what is good in their own eyes instead of listening to God’s Word at church on Sundays and at least trying to be a “good person.” 

Let me be clear.  Every era has its evils and my post was specifically focused on our hyper sexed society and the breakdown of the family.  To believe that we are not heading down a path of destruction when it comes to sex is to have one's head either buried in the sand, or to believe an "anything goes concerning sex" philosophy of our times is somehow a good thing.

As long as my husband defends what I write and as long as the Lord allows me to write, I will continue to stand for God's Word no matter what the detractors say.  After all, that is my right, which some would love to take away from me in the name of tolerance.  But where is their tolerance?



Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing 

but inwardly are ravenous wolves.
Matthew 7:15


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Dear Lori ... It is so good that your husband is so supportive! But it is also so sad that there are those who think they are children of God who are mean-spirited and so "unkind" ... where scripture tells us to live in such a different way! My prayers and love and concern are with you! Keep your faith and courage strong!
Amen!
I say, Praise the Lord, Lori - "Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man's sake.

Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets." Luke 6:22-23
Sounds like me. I tell others that even if I'm the last one standing, when it comes to the things our society keeps trying to force our minds and hearts on, that are against God and His word, I'm not budging. I have made mistakes and sinned against God but I never want anyone to come to me and try to convince me that it was ok. I repented and received gods mercy, forgiveness and love. Through it all my relationship with God has grown and my desire to share Him with others has also. I respect and love you so much for standing firm. Especially when you have had the added physical stresses you have been going through. Thank you so very much. Prayers your way always.
Lori,
Your posts have changed my life!!! I do not use that term lightly. Because of you I have learned the value and protection that comes with submitting to my husband. Example: today he went to work with our extra carseat so I called and said to rush home as our 3 year old had to be at school in about 15 minutes. I went ahead and got our elderly neighbor to just come and watch my one year old while I took older daughter to school. Rob didn't say it but I know how he thinks and he expected me to wait until he got home and put seat in my car. I went against him. I got rear-ended at an intersection with my precious baby in the car. I have never had that happen I. My entire life. If I would've waited it wouldn't have even happened. I am SOoooo thankful it wasn't worse. Wrecks are completely different when you have your precious cargo (children) in the car with you. Just another gentle reminder to me to stay in line with my husband. Praise The Lord for loving me enough to remind me in a way I would listen but keeping my family safe. Our God is a good God. And you serve Him well, Lori!!!!
I actually think people like that are really wimpy. They just can't handle an opinion? And it wasn't even a harsh one so.... I have no clue why you received that response.
You stick to what you're writing and don't you dare stop speaking the truth!!!
That statement sounds like it was made by someone who is mentally ill . I am serious. I have a relative with mental illness. By the way, I love your blog. It has helped me with my marriage.
I am 69 years young :)! When I was a child, you could walk to school without fear! We didn't have police officers in any of the schools I attended, elementary through high school. Divorce was only a whispered word, and abortion was a terrible secret! Women's lib turned out, for the most part, cold, unloving/unloveable, selfish, career driven, not family driven women, even in the church. They are women who choose the world's lies over God's Holy Word, picking and choosing what parts they want to follow or not follow. In my lifetime I have seen things getting worse and worse! Even before I became a Christian at age 33, I knew our world was headed in the wrong direction. And, now, everywhere you look, sin is rampant ~ and just when I think it can't get any worse! IT DOES! Romans Chapter 1 sounds like it could have been today's headlines! And still there are those who feel those of us who do our Spirit-led best are fools and "spew" godliness to their dismay! Christ gave us two commands: love God, love others! From my point of view, Lori, you are fulfilling those commands! Whenever truth is preached, there are those who try to kill it ~ remember the Way, the Truth, and the Life? They killed Him too! And He rose again, proving that the Truth can never be killed, just like a mighty river when dammed up will find another way to run free and pure! So keep up "spewing" the Truth on us, Lori! We need it to purify our lives before Him so we can learn better to love God and love others, just as He commanded! ❤️
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Danielle B · 599 weeks ago

I, myself was shocked at some of the comments on the post itself. And it wasn't even a controversial topic!

I may not always agree on your stance on topics. I've learned to read and not comment. I think that's what grown up Christian should do.
I totally agree with you and your husband. You both are speaking the Truth. Thank you.
There was absolutely nothing out of line with your post. Wickedness and Godlessness have become more and more prevalent in our society - to our detriment. I enjoy your blog posts and agree with 99% of what you write. God bless you.
Lori, do you really think that the only way you would know if some of your writing was historically inaccurate would be if (a) Ken disagreed, or (b) God miraculously eliminated your capacity to type things?

Lots of people who find themselves capable of typing also have supportive husbands. We can't all be right, just based on that criteria.

Honestly, the Bible simply does not say, "WWII was a nice era, not quite as sexualized as 2000 onward." -- Therefore your post was a simple opinion piece, and a poorly researched one, subject to the disagreement of many on the internet. Further, you stated the premise that it was "a more innocent time" in general, and cited many examples of how you imagine it was nicer then that were not sexual in nature.

If you stuck to the simple idea that sexuality has many fewer societal limitations now, well, I think I and the internet might have agreed with you.

It's just that having many fewer societal limitations on sexual behaviour actually does *not* make that a more innocent time. Sexuality is only one kind of sin, and only one kind of societal problem. In order to defend the idea that it really was a more innocent time (generally) you would need to take a lot more factors into account... which would require research.

As a Christian, too, you would probably want to take a more Biblical approach to the idea of innocence: that, apart from Christ no one is "innocent" and in Christ, we all are.
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I was feeling hopeful there for a moment that ugliness was not going to make its way into this blog posting comment section today. Then there it was (PBJ). Lori, just know you are writing truth and in doing that, you will get opposition. Keep encouraging us. The opposition of the world can get pretty depressing sometimes. We need truth.
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PBJ, Jesus did not come to tell everyone to be tolerant, to tell everyone they're doing just fine keep on keepin on....Jesus came to convict the world of sin and to be the antidote to the sin problem. We are slaves to sin held down and burdened without Him. He came to set people free. If I didn't hear about Jesus and believe in Him I don't know where I'd be today. Probably in a bad place like I was before.
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PJB, you have the right to have an opinion, but attempting to tear down or discredit a woman who would be your sister in Christ? Does that seem ok to you? We're to support one another and lift each other up. What do you suppose an unbeliever would think about your comments? Despite what the liberalists online might think, almost every person I know or who I've ever spoken to, know that society has left modesty, values, and respect for whatever feels good in the moment and whatever will be the most self-serving, despite who it effects. Years ago, Miley C wouldn't have twerked in public, a vulgar word on tv was totally unacceptable, having a child before marriage was disgraceful to the entire family, daddy's and mom's didn't walk off and leave their 4 kids with a grandparent so they could go get high and come in and out of the kids life when they wanted, etc etc etc. All humans throughout history have sinned! She was focusing on a few things that are drastically worse and really go hand in hand with other sinful behavior. (Drugs lead to lowered inhibitions and possibly to risky sexual behaviors, drug are more readily available and seem like the norm, so more ppl indulge and many become addicts, who might become prostitutes to pay for their addition, etc... See the connection?) Point is, we all have opinions and different experiences, education, and other factors contribute to that. We need to support one another, unless false teaching is an issue.
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unprocessed woman · 599 weeks ago

I don't think you are a dissenter, PJB. Unfortunately, many bloggers confuse valid points as dissention.
Definition of truth: "What was.....what .is.....and what .....always will be"!!! The end!!
I will never understand the mean spirited "believers" who come along to tear someone down. I had one last week who was just outright mean. I've had others that were plain sick (pedophiles who targeted my book on sexual abuse). I get the non-believers doing it, sort of, but for those who profess Christ as their savior, it is unacceptable. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Satan likes to use what ever means he can to tear down, sometimes that comes in packages that look Christian. Keep up the good work. You must be doing something right to be a target on satan's board!
One of my friends is a reporter for a local alternative publication. She writes mostly about politics and social issues. She busts her butt, not only writing articles, but also researching and interviewing people involved in a particular story. It's incredibly hard work but she and her editors believe it is important to shine a light on topics that get ignored by our local mainstream press.

And because she writes about politics and social issues she gets a lot of feedback and comments from readers. Many of these comments make the dissenting comments Lori gets look like gushy Hallmark cards. The feedback my friend's articles gets are often filled with racism, misogyny, homophobia, anti-Semitism, xenophobia and all sorts of bigotry. My friend has also been called every derogatory name in the book.

Does this feedback bother my friend? Of course, she's human. But then again, she knew getting into journalism meant she would need a very tough skin. My friend puts on her big girl panties and she copes with it. And she keeps focused reporting on stories that the public must be made aware of. She's a tremendous writer. I'm very proud of her. I hope she wins a Pulitzer Prize. She definitely deserves one.
Lori for every negative comment, there are 10 to 20 Amens! Keep up the good work. The world needs to hear the real truth!
Lori
This is a conversation my husband and I were having just this morning!
Keep speaking truth.
Lori’s purpose is to proclaim a message of life and godliness, and to motivate others to live by God’s Word. She has lots to offer, and I advise that the reader focus on her theme and message instead of getting lost in a detail or two of disagreement. If you missed the message of the original post because you got lost in your details, here it is. Lori writes:

“I just think living in a society that wasn't so sexualized would have been good. Good for marriages. Good for young people. Easier for men.”

Now you tell me what historical accuracy is necessary to convey this message? For goodness sakes she watched a Hallmark movie and wanted to gush about it. If you find yourself getting stuck on some peripheral details that are not germane to the message, remember, Jesus said,
“The mustard seed is the smallest of all seeds,” yet we know that it is not the smallest.
Should we throw out the premise of his message because his teacher gave him a bad fact in school? Or move right past I to the heart of God’s Word?

I am sure some will have fun pointing out to Jesus all the times he was not scientifically and historically accurate, because it is bugging them to death. For Lori’s blog please try to see the big picture and the truths God is teaching through Lori. She teaches me many things every day, about life, godliness and how to live with pain and suffering. She is gifted and appreciates all the 20 to 1 comments in support of her mission and purpose with her blog.
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