Thursday, August 21, 2014

Admiring Women Of Power


Kellie Martin wrote a book called Madam: A Novel Of New Orleans. She saw a picture of Mary Deubler {Madam} when she was in college and was so intrigued by her. She looked "confidant and strong" and she knew she wanted to study her to someday write a book about her.

Madam was a poor prostitute who rose to have a lot of power over New Orleans way before the women's right movement took place. Kellie loves and admires women of power and strength. I pondered that a moment and thought, "I sure don't admire the same kind of power and strength she is talking about!" I admire those whose power and strength come from the Lord and could care less about fame and fortune.

I love and admire Michelle Duggar who is raising many children to love Jesus and loves her husband. I love a woman in Illinois who lives in a trailer with nine children, home schools all of them, and adores her husband. I admire Mother Teresa who went about doing good deeds and loving the poor. I love young women who love their husbands by trying to please them and make their lives good. I love to hear of mothers who sacrifice to stay home with their children and train them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord and unmarried young women who "care for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit."{I Corinthians 7:34}

When I see powerful and popular women on television and in politics who have small children at home, I am sad for them and for their family. I am sad that they have decided fame and fortune are more important than being with their families. I could care less if a woman ever ruled a city or a country. This just doesn't impress me in the least since I know that a woman has much more power to affect society by raising godly children who are lights in a dark world.

We all have a choice in how we live our lives. Some women pursue careers, fame, fortune, power, politics, etc. and they have every right to do that so don't think I am trying to take it away. {Newsflash! ~ I have no power to do that anyways.} I just want to be a small voice for those who don't want to pursue those things and encourage them in being godly young women, wives, mothers, and keepers at home. What you have chosen is a good thing, a very good thing.

It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to 
become great among you shall be your servant.
Matthew 20:26

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Thank you so much for your daily encouragement! My husband and I just got married 10 weeks ago and as a young wife with no children it is sometimes so hard to not focus on my career but instead focusing on being a helpmeet for my husband and taking care of the home and helping others as much as possible. I still have so much to learn on being the wife God desires me to be. Your blog really helps me to keep my focus on the right things and goals. All the best from Germany
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Thanks Ela from Germany! I am still learning also. It is a never ending quest!
I couldn't agree more!! You and Michelle Duggar are my heros! Thank you for your encouraging words!
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You're welcome and thank you!
I absolutely love the positive pro-life message that Jill (Duggar) & her new husband sent out to the world by announcing joyfully that they are pregnant after only two months of marriage. What courage & love they demonstrate to the world, as well as joyfully being in a "fruitful marriage". (Marriage can be a very selfish institution when people do not want children!) Anyhow, I am rejoicing with the Duggars today! ( I have a feeling you will be writing a post on this soon Lori!) Love & prayers, in Jesus, Cynthia
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I was very happy for them also, Cynthia. This world can use all the godly children God blesses Christian parents with!
Hi Lori - I hesitated before sending this post, but if it is unacceptable I expect you to delete it. I'm so glad to read this message about powerful women. I too am sad for the families of powerful and popular women. A few years ago a woman who already held political office entered the national scene. The media attention was phenomenal. The mother of, I think five children, the youngest with special needs. I'm not trying to start a debate on women in politics but I wanted to share with your readers what I call the fallout of her campaign. While listening to a Christian radio station, one of the popular national programs endorsed her. I couldn't believe it. What made it even stranger was the name of the program used the word "family." I called the organization and shared how disappointed I was with their endorsement. Then to my dismay some of the people where I attend church endorsed her. I really appreciate your dedication to getting the message across - God's plan for the family. If this post is unacceptable I understand. Thanks for a great article!
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I wasn't excited about her either, Linda. Her children needed her much more than our country, in my opinion. There are many qualified men who could have easily taken her place. {I know this is a VERY politically incorrect view! ;)}
When I think of a powerful woman to be admired, I think immediately of Mary, the mother of Jesus. She was filled with humility, her soul magnified the Lord; not herself or her accomplishments. Her humility in accepting the will of God continues to influence our world some 2,000 years later. Now that is something to admire, versus the next political figure or soon-to-be-forgotten movie star. Thanks as always, Lori, for a thought-provoking post!

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