Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Affording Lots Of Children


If you listen to society, you will think that you can only afford one or two children at most.  It costs hundreds of thousands of dollars to raise children today.  We must be wise stewards of this planet and have few children. Who are you going to listen to, society or God?

  These are not valid arguments if you are a believer and you trust in God's provision. When the Israelites were under bondage, they were having a ton of children and God provided their escape from Egypt. God takes care of His children.

I have been reading through  journals of a woman with ten children. They live on a farm in Illinois with very little material wealth but they are so happy. God has abundantly supplied all of their needs, not all of their wants.

People expect so much today; cell phones, flat screen televisions, a car for every driver in the home, Internet, etc. These are not needs. Most people, however, are unwilling to sacrifice their wants for children. Their wants are more important than producing godly offspring.

In fact, many Americans are killing their offspring because it isn't the right time for a baby.  God's judgment on nations in the past was infertility. I think this may be a cause of the rising rates of infertility in our nation. God punishes disobedience. He is a just God.

Children are the only thing that lasts for eternity.  Everything else that you are working so hard to buy is going to end up in a garbage dump and burn. Children are flesh and blood with the ability to hug you and make you laugh.  Treasure your children.  Trust God to provide for you.  Live simply, frugally, and responsibly.  God will bless you.

Andrea has written a great post about this topic. She had a tubal ligation after her fourth baby.  She became very sick due to the tubal ligation and was told she needed to have it reversed.  She did and was pregnant several months later. She is now expecting her seventh baby and lives a simple, happy lifestyle. She is a wise, godly woman who God is blessing with many children despite what society is telling her. She trusts God. 

Therefore do not worry and be anxious, saying, What are we going to have to eat? or, What are we going to have to drink? or, What are we going to have to wear?  For the Gentiles wish for and crave and diligently seek all these things, and your heavenly Father knows well that you need them all.
Matthew 6:31,32


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What a lovely post. i agree. i have been so blessed with my two children. Would have loved to have more, but God gave me two! They are the best thing that could have ever happened to my life.
Blessings,
Susie
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I love this post too! I recently read a quote "children are not expensive, lifestyles are" and it rang so true. We just welcomed our 4th baby and live a very simple life... but it is rich with joy because of our children!
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I love this post!! We all have a choice to make. Are we going to invest in earthly treasures or heavenly treasures? Earthly treasures die or can be taken away, while heavenly treasures are eternal!
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Oh thank you so much for this post. I must have this same dialogue with my friends and aquaintances on a monthly basis. Folks who value people of things, have their priorities straight, in my opinion. And you know, children are truly blessings indeed.
Lots of Love,
Caroline
1 reply · active 671 weeks ago
I'm thinking you must be inspired Lori! My husband and I just finished having a conversation about how we weren't sure we could keep having babies on his meager police officer's salary. I think I'll show him this post. :)
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Two children don't cost twice as much as one child, four children don't cost 4 times as much. Is it hard sometimes, especially living on one salary? Yes. But we serve a faithful God who calls us to LOVE.

People before things. Always.

(from a mama of 9)
Amen! A wise older woman assured me when I got pregnant that God always provides for families when a new baby is born. I cannot even BEGIN to tell you how true this is. God looks after his children. Always.
Children are gifts from God. He gives and He provides. I am so thankful. If I have listened to today's culture my eldest would have never had her five siblings nor would I have enjoyed the delights of my two youngest. born so close together we call them our Irish twins.
I enjoyed this post. I read that truthfully, larger families are better for the environment. Contrary to popular belief, the world is not headed towards overpopulation but underpopulation because of the easy access to things like abortion and birth control. Also, moms of many use less resources because they reuse and, like you mentioned, they don't give into the materialistic culture.
This is so true! People think they need to give their children everything, but I think children turn out better if allowed to work for the things they want and need.
Thanks for your kind words, Lori!

Once women began the mass exodus from home into workplace, the entire nation began defining needs vs wants, and earned vs entitled far differently than we once did. Now, parents think they must provide so much materiality to their children, or otherwise, they should attempt to control that aspect that was reserved for God. God defines a parental contribution and responsibility far differently than the world-even most of the Christian world.

God Bless, and let us remember, the Bible always defines children as blessings..not just those that come about perfectly planned, perfectly spaced..college funded, vacation given, electronic wielding, name brand dressed and limited in numbers..they are also the only blessing Christians say "no thank you" to!
Thanks soo much: I am a bride-to-be and in last days I was so worried about this difficult times and how we will be able to grow a family, but you remind me that we don't have to worry: He will take care of us and our future family!
We have 6 biological children and we're trying to adopt!
Children are worth every penny! They are invaluable and precious. God has always provided for us with each child we have had. God is so good!
If there is one truth I learned having four children is that God always provides for one more. Children are a blessing not a burden. Amen! Great post :) Have a wonderful day!
A post with so much truth! Have a wonderful day!
Thank you for this post. As an woman expecting her first child and telling others of the other 5 I want to have, they look at me like I'm crazy. Sadly, alot of those looks comes from fellow church friends as well.
I trust God and I also know He has commanded me to find how to afford them. So, sewing lessons this year, gardening and farming this year as well, next year hopefully chicken coop? and carpentry?
If you want to afford lotsof children you must be a producer instead of a consumer. Lets not fall into this consumer world!
My parents were peasant poor but able to raise 8 children who never went hungry...
Well, I wasn't very good at having babies (it usually involved ambulances and long hospital stays), so I felt blessed with my two. I have all the respect in the world for parents with large families, especially those who have added to their brood by adoption...there is no greater love!
I like this thoughtful and thought provoking post. I have five! Came from a phamily of five and my hubby from a phamily of four! Would not trade one kid for a million things the world has to offer! Blessing to you!
Wonderful post. I only had one, but not by choice. My daughter is expecting #3 and we couldn't be more delighted!
I am sure grateful for my four.

=)
Unfortunately, Lori, there are women who give no thought to the many children they have. The Octomom is one of those women. She has 14 children, some of whom have health issues. She is a hoarder, who is losing her house, and her children live in filth and clutter. Now she has decided to become a porm star. I don't think God intended for these little ones to suffer, but because of her selfishness and stupidity, they are.

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