Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Financial Stability Before Marriage?


Should a couple be financially stable before marriage?  Do you realize how many couples in the history of the world were not financially stable when they got married?  How come we think all our little ducks need to be in order before marriage?  Are all our little ducks ever really in order?

Suppose a couple wants to get married but the man is just beginning medical school, like my parents, should they wait until he is a doctor to get married?  I don't think so.  He is getting a good education in order to support a family.

If a man has no ambition, no job, and isn't pursuing an education, then I don't think they should get married unless the wife doesn't care if her husband doesn't work hard and she lives on very little or has to get a job herself.

God is ultimately our provider.  No matter how much money you have in the bank, what kind of a job you have, and the home you live in, it can all be taken away quickly.  We have no security in this world.  We live in a very insecure world.  This is why we must put all of our hope in God.

We must not make rules for couples to follow that are not in the Bible.  God tells us to marry a believer and that it is better to marry than to burn.  Sure, most couples have to make sacrifices for the early years of marriage but sacrifice is not a bad thing.  Hard times help us to become stronger and depend upon the Lord more.

My parents lived in a condemned building for awhile but my mom always made wherever they lived a home.  It is not our circumstances that make us happy and content, it is a thankful attitude and a dependence on the Lord to provide.

Our society tells young people they must be financially stable before marriage.  The Bible doesn't say that anywhere.  It does say than the men need to be hard workers and provide for their families and the women need to be hard workers at home.  As long as you are willing to work hard and sacrifice, you can marry even when you are not financially secure and watch how the Lord provides for you.

I have been young, and now am old; 
yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, 
nor his seed begging bread.
Psalm 37:25