Friday, August 15, 2014

Guarding And Watching Our Homes


"Keeper at home" literally means to guard or watch. In order to guard and watch your home, you must be home. And so, the enemy devised a plan to lure women away from their homes so he could steal, kill and destroy the men, women and children of our culture.

He first gave women a taste of the independence and luxuries of working outside the home during WWII. Feminism came along and convinced them that homemaking was inferior and to cast off the shackles of marriage, child-bearing and housework, making their mark in the masculine realm of the workplace.

Over time, some people, especially those in Christian circles, decided that mothers were needed at home. They figured out they couldn't do it all and marriages and families were falling apart. So some came home. As incomes rose, more and more homes got two automobiles. Once again, moms had a lot of freedom and left the home often to run about here and there.

Children were carted off to after school activities, music lessons, etc. Moms are still seldom at home. Their car becomes their home away from home. As they frantically drive home from all the activities, they grab fast food and they all eat their dinners in front of the TV exhausted or playing with their electronic gadgets.

All the verses referring to wives and mothers in the Bible revolve around activities done in their own homes and caring for their families. Is it possible that God gave these instructions because He knew we were hard-wired in such a way that we require a mostly home-centered life in order to attain to the gentle, quiet, and meek spirit He wants to see in us?

The benefits of being home more are: time for prayer and meditation in God's Word, families eating healthier since we have more time to make meals from scratch, saving money on gas and automobile wear, homes better kept, being more rested and ready to fulfill our "wifely duties" for our husbands, more available to those in need, and our children will be rested, happier, and more relaxed. 

Our homes and our families should receive the lion's share of our time and attention. The last thing in the world the enemy wants is for us to be rested, peaceful, content, and quiet. I think this includes not being involved in a lot of ministries that are outside of your home. When you have children at home, you are to guard and watch your home, even when they are teenagers. Don't listen to the lies of the enemy and society any longer. Listen to God's Word and His plan for you.

For thus says the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel, 
has said, "In repentance and rest you shall be saved, 
in quietness and trust is your strength."
Isaiah 30:15

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Susan Taft · 554 weeks ago

My youngest son died two weeks before his high school graduation. He had Leukemia. I thank God that I had all those years at home with him - that I hadn't missed his first step - his happy face when he ran through the door after school to show me what he had learned that day - the summers together playing ball, soccer, etc in the backyard. I sometimes ask young mothers - "What if you knew that your child was only going to live 4-5 more years - would you still be gone from 8-5 every day of his remaining life?" Childhood passes all too quickly - mothers need to be with their children.
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Wow. LOVE this perspective. Thanks for sharing and I'm so sorry for the loss of your son.
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Susan Taft · 554 weeks ago

Thank you Tiffany - Matthew knew the Lord so I have the joy of knowing I'll see him again!! PTL
Two things I'd like to add to the discussion: beware of too many distractions in the home too. This darn computer sucks my time away and it's so hard to resist!! So even if I'm home, I still have to be careful to not be on this thing too much. Many women are home and still don't cook properly or hardly clean. (But it is good to get some inspiration and education from the computer on these topics, just put the computer down when finished!) Also, I do believe children need outside activities like organized sports and music, because the reality is that you really can't let your kids roam free anymore. People will call CPS if they see a child unattended at the park. So it is better to just sign them up for things, so you know they're getting their exercise and learning some skills. Not too much mind you, but I don't see anyway around it.
Love this Post!
You sure do know how to give us wise words, to take to heart and share.
Great post!
Excellent post Lori! This is so true and timely. My heart goes out to some of the young moms in my extended family who are so busy with working and running their kids to after school events. They never eat from scratch. When they do make it to church on Sundays, they sit there like they are robots because they are so tired. I see this so much it breaks my heart for them. O how Satan has blinded their eyes. I can't say too much because I can tell that my comments are not wanted because we are weird and live in a small home with a paid for 10 year old car. No debts but somehow we just don't have any fun...
Keep telling the truth Lori. People need to be reminded of God's word. Praying for you...
This is wonderful advice for mothers. I bought in to the "ME TIME" myth for so many years. The problem with it was that there was never enough. The more I got, the more I craved. I started resenting my husband and children because when I came home from my self serving time, I then had to serve them. My flesh was NOT happy about that. It is amazing that the more I am with them, the more I enjoy them. It is exactly opposite of what the world tells you. My biggest advice for women would be to have an hour of exercise a day, maybe while the kids play at the park. Get up early to be with the Lord or enjoy the times after bed w/h your hubby. This is wonderful self care time for me!
Great post, this really encourages me! :)
Very true! When I'm gone too much my house gets out of order and is far too neglected, which is a great stress to me. Just because I homeschool doesn't mean I'm at home and attending to it like I should. When I prioritize and discipline my time and activities, life is so much better!
My children are grown now I wish I had only read this 27 years ago, but would I have listened?___

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