Some of Rob's last words to Sandy before he died were to let the youth, that he ministered to, know that God had not let him down. In his dying moments, as a young man with children and a young wife, he cared about the youth at his church and making sure that they knew that God was faithful, even though their prayers for Rob's healing never came. God had allowed his death to come at an early age.
Kara Tippetts is dying from cancer with four younger children and a husband whom she loves. She just wrote this on her Facebook wall ~
Friends, I'm sorry my blog hasn't been able to keep pace. Your love and support has come through. I love you friends. Today, hospice came; we open a new chapter. Friday, I will have my last appointment with my kind faced oncologist. I cannot imagine it; he and I have become such a team. Pray I would encourage him in his calling. That he wouldn't see my fading as a failure but my sweet wooing towards home.
Her body is shutting down. All the treatments have failed, yet at this moment, all she cared about was her oncologist and encouraging him. Her faith inspires many. Rob's faith inspired many. People see Jesus in us most in our sufferings. More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. {Romans 5:3-5}
When we suffer or are nearing death, we see things clearly. The rubber meets the road. This isn't our home. We are strangers and aliens passing through. Michael Pearl says our time here is Grand Central Station. We are all purchasing our ticket to heaven or to hell. It's a blip on the screen of eternity.
Jesus came to set us free. Free from what? Free from sin. Selfishness. Free to deeply love others and serve them. Free from ourselves and free to give our lives away so that others may see Jesus in us. Use your time wisely. Every person in your life has faults and will disappoint you at times. You will disappoint others at times. Forgive easily and often and love others, for love covers over a multitude of sins.
If your husband is unsaved or is walking in sin, think more about his eternal soul rather than your happiness, then make his life as pleasant as you can. Minister to him with your life. Learn to have a meek and gentle spirit that draws him to Jesus.
Today ends another year. Make it your ambition in life to live for Jesus and to serve others by loving them deeply, forgiving them easily, and serving them.
Happy New Year, dear friends and readers!
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helen · 534 weeks ago
thank you for this post, it brings to mind this quote from CS Lewis 'There are far far better things ahead than anything we leave behind'
May God bless you richly in 2015
Helen UK
Lori Alexander 122p · 534 weeks ago
hiswife522 43p · 534 weeks ago
This world is not our home.
Blessings today and in the New Year
~Amanda
Lori Alexander 122p · 534 weeks ago
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hiswife522 43p · 534 weeks ago
Matt Walsh is a very good writer, and much of the time, he is very insightful and correct. Sometimes, though, he's amiss in diagnosing the problem, so before I'd endorse him, I'd tell the reader to be sure to use their Bible filter. While some of his posts have me giving a hearty "Amen, brother!", some of his have left me with pretty big questions. He is especially good at pointing out logical fallacies without using fancy terminology. People can read him and study logic without even knowing it. The ability to think is a lost art in our society. But, in all honesty, we should read ANY teacher with a Biblical filter, and I think Matt is more of a commentator than a teacher. He commentates and identifies problems in our society, but he doesn't really teach how to live a godly life upon the identification of the problems (sometimes, regarding identification of sin in relation to women, he is blinded). Does that make sense about commentator versus teacher? I hope it came across clearly.
Lori Alexander 122p · 534 weeks ago
hiswife522 43p · 534 weeks ago
Okay, I'll be quiet now.
hiswife522 43p · 534 weeks ago
First, I would have to ask the reasoning behind the need to classify porn as adultery. Porn is sin. But, I must ask, why do we need to quantify it as adultery? Sin is sin. Christians should not walk in sin, and when we do sin, and when our either intentional or unintentional sin is exposed, we need to repent of it.
But I must address, to me, what appears to be the root issue. The arguments I've heard with the objective to quantify porn as adultery, are made with the desire to justify divorce over porn.
Thus, I must ask, what is this the reason you want it to be considered adultery?
To me, it's not worthy of debate. It is sin. It needs to be repented of and rejected. But to waste energy on the debate of if it's adultery or not, is not a road I am going to go down. I will explain my reasoning. Typically, if there was adultery, I'd not give it as an automatic green light for divorce. Biblically, while adultery was granted as an option, it was not commanded. I believe that repentance and reconciliation is, at the heart of the matter, what God desires. Why do I say this? Because, marriage is an earthly show of Christ's relationship with the church. We sin and commit spiritual adultery against Christ. Praise God, he doesn't take up our first sin (which me MOST RIGHTFULLY COULD) or second, or third, etc sin as a reason to divorce us.
If you can give me a valid reason, aside from an easy out of marriage, that there is a need to quantify porn as adultery, perhaps I'd consider it. However, with what I've said above, I do not think there is a need to quantify it. It is sin. Period.
Lori Alexander 122p · 534 weeks ago
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Ksdee · 534 weeks ago
Whether it is a physical or emotional separation from one's spouse, whatever the cause, could easily be considered as adultery including the sin of porn.
This discussion is something very separate from the point behind Lori's post.
hiswife522 43p · 534 weeks ago
Biblically, while adultery was granted an option for justifiable divorce, it was not commanded.**
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Jo · 534 weeks ago
Sometimes we need to be taken to the worse situation to see clarity and truly understand why we need the Lord so much and why His Word matters. Yesterday was my son's first anniversary since his suicide attempt. It was a horrible day as he was certain something bad was going to happen (and it almost did). I prayed, I rallied around friends and family (Facebook really does have some good points!) and some family members held a pray meeting - and together with the Lord in charge we made it through. It doesn't mean we won't hit other rough patches in the coming year, it means we can do it as long as we let the Lord take control, to be our Captain. My husband is not a believe, but I try to be the shining light so he can see the power of Christ through me. I do fail at times (lots of times) but I will never give up.
Thankyou for your many posts, we may disagree from time to time, but I do enjoy what you write.
Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning. Psalm 30:5
Lori Alexander 122p · 534 weeks ago
Ken · 534 weeks ago
What should make us happy is when our lives match up with Kingdom values and not earthly values. Some Christians are called as earthly rich and others as earthly poor and heavenly rich, yet we all inherit the same eternal life and riches in Christ. Paul says to be content (happy) no matter what our circumstances, knowing that this time is but a short test of our faith. Will we be faithful with our riches? Will we be faithful within our poverty? Will we be faithful to the King of Kings and Lord of Lords?
Why are too many marriages unhappy? Because our tendency is to feed our own fleshly desires and perceived needs over others, especially our spouse. Too many marry for what they can get from a spouse instead of what they can give to a spouse, and hence violate their own stated values, creating their own unhappiness. Christian marriages often carry way too high an expectation level that non Christian marriages do not suffer from. Unbelievers would laugh at the expectations and resulting moods that come from unmet expectations because their expectations do not see many things that we see as sin, unless it is major sins. The smaller sins are ignored, laughed at or participated in together. Fewer expectations lead to fewer disappointments, until a big expectation is missed, then it may be all over. Match up with a godly and mature believer and most often the marriage is happy, even if it is at times difficult or not perfect.
Imelda · 533 weeks ago