Saturday, August 29, 2015

Nine Tips for Enduring Pregnancy


As many of you know, I have four children yet I’ve been pregnant five times. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage so I was thrilled to finally be pregnant again. All I ever wanted in life was to be a wife and mom. Since I hadn’t been too sick with my first pregnancy, I was happy I was sick with my second one since I had heard that the sicker you are, the healthier your baby is going to be. {I don’t think this is the case for all women, but for me it seemed to be.}

 I didn't go for a doctor's appointment until I was almost five months since I felt the less intervention, the better. I only had one sonogram and that was with my first live pregnancy since I had had a miscarriage prior to this one. Back then, doctors didn't do much or require much testing during pregnancy which I liked since I would have never had an abortion any way. We didn't know if it was a boy or girl until the moment the baby was born and was flipped over! I worked during this pregnancy and the next so this was difficult but I do have some tips for all of you who are thinking about getting pregnant or are pregnant.

1) Make sure you get plenty of rest. Even when I was working, during any break, I would rest my head on the table and then when I got home. A lot is going on in your body while you are pregnant. You are creating another human being! When I was home full-time with my last two pregnancies, I would put the children down for a nap, and then I would take a nap or rest while listening to praise music.

2)  Make sure you are eating as healthy as you can. When I was sick during the first few months, I would live on raw almonds, baked potatoes with avocado and bananas. It was about all I could stomach but at least it was all nourishing food. It’s important to nourish your body while you are pregnant since a baby is being created in you! Eat healthy fats {olive oil, butter, coconut oil, etc. since these will prevent stretch marks}, protein from healthy sources, and plenty of fruits and vegetables. These should be your main source of nutrition.

3) Stay away from junk food: sugar, caffeine, processed foods, and white flour. These are not nourishing at all but actually health destroying. I never had a problem with retention of water {edema} since I didn’t eat any junk. I gained around 20 pounds with each of my children and they were all around the seven pound mark. I remember reading this journal {highly recommended} of a woman who had ten children. She noticed that each child was getting bigger and she got gestational diabetes which she didn't get with her earlier babies. She concluded it was due to eating too much junk!

4) Drink a lot of water. Since the volume of blood and water is going to be much greater while housing a baby, you need to make sure you are drinking plenty of good, filtered water.

5) Always wear comfortable clothing and shoes. It is not worth backaches and being uncomfortable to look in style and fancy. You don’t want to do anything that risks the health of you or your baby by wearing something that is too tight or uncomfortable.

6) Try natural remedies for sicknesses or pain. I have used many different treatments for my illnesses and pain that didn’t include drugs and were not harmful to my health. All drugs are toxic to the human body and anything you ingest will also go to your baby. For example, zofran is sometimes used for morning sickness but did you know about all the side effects from using it? Therefore, if at all possible, use essential oils, supplements, foods, etc. to deal with what ails you, but make sure they are safe for pregnant women before taking anything.

7) At the end of a long day, try putting your feet up at night. My feet never did get swollen since I never retained water but pregnancy is still hard on feet; carrying the extra weight. Find a comfortable place, get a lot of pillows and rest. Read a good book or watch an uplifting television show. Dwell on the lovely and the good. You don't need to know all about the bad things happening in the world!

8) Take one day at a time. Pregnancy for most women is not that easy with morning sickness, back pain, contractions, etc. Try to not worry and rest in the Lord for strength. I was very sick with my fourth baby and I had three young children but the Lord brought me through. He is faithful to do this for His children.

9) Try to keep your joy! I know pregnancy can be difficult; after all, it is a result of sin that it is hard. However, there is joy when you hold that precious baby in your arms! There is NO greater joy that to have children walking in Truth. All four of our children are walking in truth and they have been our greatest joy in life!

Whenever a woman is in labor she has pain, because her hour has come; but when she gives birth to the child, she no longer remembers the anguish because of the joy that a child has been born into the world.
John 16:21

***Remember, I'm NOT a doctor. I'm just a homemaker who loves to research 
natural cures and have found many that have worked for my family and me. Information I have given is for educational and informational purposes only and to motivate you to make your own health care and dietary decisions based upon your own research and in partnership with your health care provider. Any statements or claims about the possible health benefits conferred by any foods or supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Nothing you read here should be relied upon to determine dietary changes, a medical diagnosis or course of treatment.

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Lori,

You may have already heard about it, but the book "Supernatural Childbirth" was such a blessing to me! It really helped me build my faith and trust God for a healthy pregnancy and smooth delivery. I stayed away from women who only wanted to share their pregnancy horror stories and just listened to the Lord for direction with everything. I ate whole, healthy foods in their natural state, and ate lots of healthy fat! Only two tiny stretch marks that my husband cant even see. I labored at home most of the day and got to the hospital just in time to push. Labor was smooth and our daughter is perfectly healthy, praise God! I didn't use pain meds and it wasn't really that bad. I hope to do it all over again just the same way with our next baby :) Loving your blog!
I am at the end of my seventh pregnancy (enduring is a great word) and I will confess I have been bad in the diet department this time around and I don't actually have a good reason for it. :(. I do eat healthy foods but also too many bad ones. Have a sweet tooth which I know is terrible.

Anyways. this is all good advice. I do natural remedies during sickness and try to rest. My body forces me to bc my hips, lower back, legs and feet have tightness and cramping muscles a lot from overcompensating due to the constant loose ligaments I've had through all the pregnancies and bfing. And now the swelling, too. I am planning my sixth Homebirth so everything is very low intervention which I love. Some pregnancies need more intervention but if it's not necessary I don't want it. I get the basics done though.
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Hi Dana,
Seventh pregnancy, you are blessed.
Your cramping may be due to magnesium deficiency. Rubbing magnesium oil into the soles of your feet will increase your levels.i know that it has helped me with my night time leg cramps.
Hi Mara, thank you. Yes, I am blessed and the difficulties help me learn to rely on the Lord and reveal areas where sanctification is needed.
Thanks for the tip about magnesium. I do seem to have trouble retaining magnesium and supplement orally which helps but maybe topically would be more of a direct help. I also added some extra potassium in my diet and that seems to be helping as well. :)
My first 2 pregnancies I ate a normal junk filled diet. They were also my hardest pregnancies. My last 3 pregnancies have been progressively better the more I've learned about nutrition.
Lori, thank you for this article. Great stuff here. For severe nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), also known as hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), drugs sometimes are truly necessary. It's definitely not an optional choice when your body goes into that downward spiral of severe nausea, dehydration, and rapid weight loss - which can also be dangerous for baby.

I have blogged for many years about severe morning sickness - for anyone who needs more information, feel free to visit! www.whiningpuker.blogspot.com

Thank you for these wise tips! Have a wonderful weekend!

Diana
Hi Lori-
I read a book called SuperNatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize that was really encouraging to me throughout pregnancy. I think you would enjoy it too. It is really neat to hear her dig into Scripture. And yes, while pregnancy is taxing on our bodies, God DESIGNED us to be able to do it. I truly think that perspective is huge & helped me keep my joy. I followed many of these tips and was blessed with two great pregnancies!
1 reply · active 499 weeks ago
I agree with you, wholeheartedly that attitude has a lot to do with pregnancy! I just had our ninth and tenth babies five months ago; boy and girl twins. It was the most taxing pregnancy, because twins are just a lot on the body, AND I make big babies..so what is normally a strain, was crazy! However, I prayed for them daily. I prayed for strength and that I could be an example of selflessness, and not of pampered princess whining!

Our bodies are made to do this. All the medical world attempts to scare us into preventing several pregnancies, and to emphasize risks, when in fact, my health is better than ever.

My babies were born vaginally, full term at 37 weeks and were 8 lbs 1 oz and 7 lbs 10 oz. My difficult work of ensuring I got 150 grams + of protein each day, for blood volume, and a lot of fat and calories was worth it. The not sleeping, but a few hours in the recliner, from 6 months pregnant was worth it. They are here and such a joy.

Now I can't wait until God blesses us again, should He choose to!

God Bless!
I am currently pregnant with my 6th baby, 3rd with gestational diabetes. The midwives at the hospital can be quite negative, eventhough I was able to go without medication for the last 2, they think I won't be so "lucky" this time, also my age (late 30s), and multiple pregnancies (6) puts me at "high risk". No wonder there's not very many large families around.

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