Some people come cross as mean and hateful when they disagree. Whenever I write a post, I never know what the response will be. I just write my opinions and try to stay within God's Word to guide me. When I wrote A More Innocent Time, several minutes after it was published, I recieved this email, "One day, Lori, you will have to stand trial before the Lord for all the wicked things you spew on His children and especially on His daughters!" I simply deleted it and moved on.
I started getting a lot more mean emails and could not fathom why this post would create such a backlash. I know I have websites that hate everything good, moral, and decent that mock me. I am use to it and don't let it stop me.
To be clear, my commentary was on a Hallmark movie that was a portrayal of more decent times in our country as I stated in my post ~
It is set in a time in our history when sexual immorality was not nearly as common and society wasn't hyper-sexualized like it is today. I imagine it was a much easier time to remain sexually pure. The music was decent and romantic. No vulgar words. Divorce was rare. Parents stayed together and raised their children. Yes, it is easy to romanticize those days and look back with nostalgia but God has placed us here, in this day, for His purposes. They had their struggles and we have ours.
To be clear, my commentary was on a Hallmark movie that was a portrayal of more decent times in our country as I stated in my post ~
It is set in a time in our history when sexual immorality was not nearly as common and society wasn't hyper-sexualized like it is today. I imagine it was a much easier time to remain sexually pure. The music was decent and romantic. No vulgar words. Divorce was rare. Parents stayed together and raised their children. Yes, it is easy to romanticize those days and look back with nostalgia but God has placed us here, in this day, for His purposes. They had their struggles and we have ours.
That afternoon, I asked Ken to read my post and tell me if I was out of line. When I asked him, he was already responding to some of my critics. He wrote ~
I have no clue what world a few commenters are living in, but to think that the world is not running headlong into the End Times is to be out of touch with reality. Evil is always present in the world, but there was a time in the U.S. where churches were filled, neighbors who knew each other and acted like a church, even with unbelievers. Doors were never locked, kids played out in the streets and hope abounded.
Fast forward to today and see that right is wrong and wrong is considered right in so many areas of our society. Abortion is acceptable to half the nation, and with it shacking up is almost the norm for even Christian kids. Being gay is not only considered an acceptable lifestyle, it is honored and glorified on TV, the media and legislated to be something wonderful. Alcohol is now replaced with a myriad of special drugs, and even our kids are loaded up with cocaine like drugs to keep their behavior in check and their grades at a high standard.
The list of degradation in our country from 50 years ago to today is almost endless with prisons filled, divorce rates through the roof and everyone doing what is good in their own eyes instead of listening to God’s Word at church on Sundays and at least trying to be a “good person.”
Let me be clear. Every era has its evils and my post was specifically focused on our hyper sexed society and the breakdown of the family. To believe that we are not heading down a path of destruction when it comes to sex is to have one's head either buried in the sand, or to believe an "anything goes concerning sex" philosophy of our times is somehow a good thing.
As long as my husband defends what I write and as long as the Lord allows me to write, I will continue to stand for God's Word no matter what the detractors say. After all, that is my right, which some would love to take away from me in the name of tolerance. But where is their tolerance?
Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing
but inwardly are ravenous wolves.
Matthew 7:15
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Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets." Luke 6:22-23
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Your posts have changed my life!!! I do not use that term lightly. Because of you I have learned the value and protection that comes with submitting to my husband. Example: today he went to work with our extra carseat so I called and said to rush home as our 3 year old had to be at school in about 15 minutes. I went ahead and got our elderly neighbor to just come and watch my one year old while I took older daughter to school. Rob didn't say it but I know how he thinks and he expected me to wait until he got home and put seat in my car. I went against him. I got rear-ended at an intersection with my precious baby in the car. I have never had that happen I. My entire life. If I would've waited it wouldn't have even happened. I am SOoooo thankful it wasn't worse. Wrecks are completely different when you have your precious cargo (children) in the car with you. Just another gentle reminder to me to stay in line with my husband. Praise The Lord for loving me enough to remind me in a way I would listen but keeping my family safe. Our God is a good God. And you serve Him well, Lori!!!!
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Tracy Word · 599 weeks ago
By the way, I haven't met a Hallmark movie I didn't like. Hallmark tends to make very wholesome family oriented movies.
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Danielle B · 599 weeks ago
I may not always agree on your stance on topics. I've learned to read and not comment. I think that's what grown up Christian should do.
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PJB · 599 weeks ago
Lots of people who find themselves capable of typing also have supportive husbands. We can't all be right, just based on that criteria.
Honestly, the Bible simply does not say, "WWII was a nice era, not quite as sexualized as 2000 onward." -- Therefore your post was a simple opinion piece, and a poorly researched one, subject to the disagreement of many on the internet. Further, you stated the premise that it was "a more innocent time" in general, and cited many examples of how you imagine it was nicer then that were not sexual in nature.
If you stuck to the simple idea that sexuality has many fewer societal limitations now, well, I think I and the internet might have agreed with you.
It's just that having many fewer societal limitations on sexual behaviour actually does *not* make that a more innocent time. Sexuality is only one kind of sin, and only one kind of societal problem. In order to defend the idea that it really was a more innocent time (generally) you would need to take a lot more factors into account... which would require research.
As a Christian, too, you would probably want to take a more Biblical approach to the idea of innocence: that, apart from Christ no one is "innocent" and in Christ, we all are.
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And because she writes about politics and social issues she gets a lot of feedback and comments from readers. Many of these comments make the dissenting comments Lori gets look like gushy Hallmark cards. The feedback my friend's articles gets are often filled with racism, misogyny, homophobia, anti-Semitism, xenophobia and all sorts of bigotry. My friend has also been called every derogatory name in the book.
Does this feedback bother my friend? Of course, she's human. But then again, she knew getting into journalism meant she would need a very tough skin. My friend puts on her big girl panties and she copes with it. And she keeps focused reporting on stories that the public must be made aware of. She's a tremendous writer. I'm very proud of her. I hope she wins a Pulitzer Prize. She definitely deserves one.
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Kimberly · 599 weeks ago
This is a conversation my husband and I were having just this morning!
Keep speaking truth.
Ken · 599 weeks ago
“I just think living in a society that wasn't so sexualized would have been good. Good for marriages. Good for young people. Easier for men.”
Now you tell me what historical accuracy is necessary to convey this message? For goodness sakes she watched a Hallmark movie and wanted to gush about it. If you find yourself getting stuck on some peripheral details that are not germane to the message, remember, Jesus said,
“The mustard seed is the smallest of all seeds,” yet we know that it is not the smallest.
Should we throw out the premise of his message because his teacher gave him a bad fact in school? Or move right past I to the heart of God’s Word?
I am sure some will have fun pointing out to Jesus all the times he was not scientifically and historically accurate, because it is bugging them to death. For Lori’s blog please try to see the big picture and the truths God is teaching through Lori. She teaches me many things every day, about life, godliness and how to live with pain and suffering. She is gifted and appreciates all the 20 to 1 comments in support of her mission and purpose with her blog.