Friday, June 6, 2014

A Welcoming Home For The Lord And Others


Is the Lord welcome in your home? If He were to knock on your door right now, would you feel comfortable letting Him in? Is there peace and harmony among those who dwell there? Is the music being played honoring to Him? Would He be able to sit next to you and watch television? Is there contentment and joy filling the air? Is there order to the home and a comfortable place for Him to sit?

For some reason, we forget that He lives in our homes with us. "Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him."{John 14:23} Whatever you are doing, He is right there with you. 

I'm convinced that part of living a beautiful life in a fallen world is reflecting God's Hospitable nature. Those who enjoy God's hospitality must extend hospitality to others: "Share with the Lord's people who are in need. Practice hospitality"{Romans 12:13}. A welcoming home is more than offering a meal and a bed. When I consider the Lord's hospitality, I think of his listening ear and His self-revelation. The words "conversation" and "communion" may be the sweetest fruit of hospitality. 

When a teenager questioned why she should make her bed and tidy her room when she could merely close the door on the mess, her mother replied, "It is an act of hospitality to yourself." There is profound wisdom in this mother's answer.  

My mother was a widow for twenty five years. Although she lived alone, she cooked full, well-balanced meals and kept a neat house. Her friends asked, "Why trouble yourself to cook when you could slip something ready-made into the microwave?" The answer, I believe, was "hospitality." It was something she could do to live a beautiful life in a fallen world. {Jean Fleming from Pursue The Intentional Life}

Our homes have so much value to the Lord. Marriages are nourished in the home. Children are loved and disciplined in the home. Visitors are welcomed. All of the women's roles in the Bible basically revolve around the home. Make sure you make your home welcome to the Lord and to others. It should be your main ministry in life.

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Love this! Thanks for sharing. I can't wait to read about your new series on keeping our homes clean.
Extending hospitality is a wonderful biblical trait in itself, and also a great form of outreach. One of my daughters insists that we have guests at least once a week. It's also great training for children to get used to setting the table, helping to prepare the meal, and learning to make guests - young and old - feel welcome. We benefited from the hospitality of others during the early years of our marriage, so it was my pleasure to invite others each week to our home once we were blessed with a home of our own to accommodate them.

It made me feel a bit sad, though, to read about a widow keeping her house just so, while she was all alone. Did she still invite guests even though she normally lived alone, or was her house kept ready even without visitors? I hope it wasn't the latter. I'd really hope that she'd either have visitors (and actively invite some if she didn't have family close by), or have others invite her to their homes.
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Look forward to the series!
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sheila payne · 564 weeks ago

I love post about hospitality. It is maybe my area of giftedness if I allow myself to truly see it as a gift. In comparison to music, art, medicine, etc. it doesn't seem to measure up too well. Posts like these make me think differently --at least until I run into someone with one of the other gifts that seem so uncommon and extra special.
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Sheila, please be encouraged. If you feel that hospitality is your gift, please pursue it. I so love to go to peoples homes who enjoy this wonderful gift. I had a friend for many years before she moved South to retire, who had her home opened to any missionary or anyone who travelled to stay with them. Everyone had an open invitation. What a wonderful ministry she had. Her home was clean but simple. Her meals were not 5 star restaurants but yet healthy. You just knew that when you came to visit, that the world stopped for awhile. We were always treated like special people who mattered. Oh what wonderful memories we have.
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sheila payne · 564 weeks ago

Thank you, Diane for such sweet encouragement.
Sheila,

Type into google "bible verses about hospitality" and you will find many verses! It is even listed as a gift and a qualification for elders so God must have thought it was a very important gift. My very favorite thing in the world is to sit around a table, eating, and talking with friends and family. My mom was always so hospitable {it was her gift} and every one always loving coming to our home. She made an impact on very many lives. You can too, Sheila. People today need a warm, comfortable place to go in this cold, hard world!
Lori, Thank you so much for this timely post. I am so concerned for friends and family who seem to think that you can watch anything on TV and it won't be a problem. I wince at the shows with the women who are showing cleavage to my sons. I don't dress like this and won't let it come in to my home. Please moms of daughters, your clothing does affect young men more than you know. I want to keep a home where Christ could always knock on my door and enjoy a home cooked meal from scratch and watch the Duggars with us. He sees all the I do anyways. May he approve of us as his lighthouses while we are here on earth.
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He does command that we dwell on the true, honest, just, pure, lovely, and things of good report. He cares about what we fill our minds with so we should also care!
This is a much needed reminder for me. I often panic when someone is pulling in the driveway or if I know people are coming over because I don't want them to see that I can't seem to keep up with things these days. I truly want to WANT people to come over, but don't feel that way now. I really look forward to your keeping a clean home series! I enjoy reading here very much! Thanks for the encouragement!
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It is difficult to keep a clean home, especially if we weren't trained how to do it and our children are young or we are ill. Our homes don't need to be perfect but there should be cleanliness and order in them. God always seems to provide the strength or help when needed.
This. I keep my house pretty clean, for the most part, and I go around every day and keep the clutter down, make sure the cat litter is scooped and odor-free, trash emptied, newspapers put in the recycle bin, etc. But if someone shows up unannounced and I haven't quite finished, or I missed a spot somewhere, I just laugh and welcome them in anyway. They came to visit with me, not inspect my house. ;)
Rebecca, I love your post so much. What a sweet attitude you have. It is so true that most people do not care if the house is spotless. People don't see what you see. If you are kind and friendly with a smile, I just see you. I could care less if the mini blinds are a little dusty. We need a refuge from the storms of life and it sounds like your home is one safe place to visit.
Awww, thanks, Diane. And thanks for mentioning mini-blinds--some of mine could definitely use some attention! LOL!
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Love being his wife. · 564 weeks ago

Rebecca, I feel the same as Diane, your post has blessed me too.
A Christian's life should be all about people, loving them and providing a refuge from the storms that life brings!
That said, I also love a clean home, but that is about my home not someone else.
Just wanted to pop in and say "hello"
As always your blog is such a blessing to me!
Thank you!
I feel like I learn something from you every time I visit your blog. Being hospitable to myself. I never thought of that.
Thank you,
Laura
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Love being his wife. · 564 weeks ago

I am looking forward to your new series Lori.
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Love being his wife. · 564 weeks ago

Lori, is that a photo of your home?

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