Sunday, April 29, 2012

50 Shades of Evil

It was Satan's first trick in the beginning.  Make the woman believe that something evil is very good.  Deceive her...Now millions of women are reading this book that the experts think is great for marriage so women will experience a fabulous sex life.  The Great Deceiver is at it again.

Dr. Oz had a show dedicated to this book.  All the women in the audience have read it and said how it changed their lives.  Their husbands are very happy.  No, I haven't read the book.  It is considered soft core porn.  I won't read books like that.

I have a problem seeing how women reading about someone else's sexual exploits and being turned on by it is any different than men watching pornography and being turned on by it.  All these women say their sex lives are amazing now.  I would like to interview them in a month and see if they say the same thing.

Pornography is evil whether looking at it on the Internet or words written in a book.  We are admonished to set our mind on these things ~

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Philippians 4:8

Whatever you watch or read should be first found to be true, honest, just, pure, lovely, of good report, and virtue.  If it doesn't measure up to these standards, flee.  The Bible admonishes us to FLEE sexual immorality.  Having several nights of passionate sex isn't worth it.  In the end, it is all a delusion and will hurt your marriage.

Don't read this book.  It is not pleasing to the Lord and it will end up hurting you.  This is Satan's plan.  God wants you to have peace and joy.  Satan's plan is to take away your peace and joy and destroy marriages.

Seek the Creator of sex instead.  His design was for us to enjoy sex in a marital relationship.  Pursue holiness and I bet your sexual relationship will improve as you humbly love and serve your husband and Heavenly Husband.

Sheila Wray Gregoire writes a blog and has written a book for Christians so they might have a long lasting, God honoring sexual relationship in marriage.  She is a very wise woman with a great sense of humor.  Read her book and blog instead. 

Abstain from ALL appearance of evil.
I Thessalonians 5:22

P.S.  If you don't know what book I am referring to in this post, good...forget about it.