The Jews, the Greeks, the Romans, the Swiss, the Dutch, all lost their public spirit and their republican forms of government when they lost the modesty and domestic virtues of their women.
John Adams, Second President of the United States
Notwithstanding, she {women} shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
I Timothy 2:15
I Timothy 2:15
This verse was always a difficult one to figure out. I am going to be quoting from Pastor Walter J. Chantry in this post. One sermon of his helped me understand this verse better.
Prior to this verse in Timothy, we are told about Eve being the one deceived. When she abandoned her role of submission to Adam, and decided to take matters into her own hands, the Fall came! Her restless defiance of man's authority is at the crux of human calamity!
Now I know a lot of today's women will not like hearing that but we were created to be man's help meet from the very beginning of time. The first sin appears to be an unsubmissive wife that just decided to take things into her own hands and do things her way, coming out from under the authority of her husband.
So how does childbearing save us? This is not a text on remission of sins but deliverance out of sin-related suffering and oppression. As women have left their God-ordained place {home} they have institutionalized their rebellion against their God-given place. {It is impossible to have a full-time career, a solid marriage, secure and godly children, and a well-run home with nutritious food. Nobody is superhuman.}
Her pathway to real salvation was appointed by the Almighty. It is motherhood. She shall be saved through childbirth. How wrong women are when they imagine that their hope lies in imitating men's careers. Raising a godly seed is still of the profoundest importance to the cause of God in the earth! Nothing crushes the cause of sin like godly childbearing.
Today nothing can replace the care and training of a faithful mother. {No daycare or babysitter will love and train their children like their mother!} Women have abandoned their highest dignity and hope for lesser things. {How can working a job outside of the home compare to raising children who walk in truth?}
Women's hope, the church's hope, the world's hope is joined to childbearing with continuance in faith, love and holiness. {You must be diligent to grow in your faith, love and holiness while raising children.}
Young women, here is a life-long calling! It is the highest any woman can enter. There is much more to it than the world imagines. Take it seriously and God will bless the generation to come. Work at it spiritually and the Lord will give you the liberation you desire. {True freedom is found in surrendering your life to God and His ways.}
Young women, here is a life-long calling! It is the highest any woman can enter. There is much more to it than the world imagines. Take it seriously and God will bless the generation to come. Work at it spiritually and the Lord will give you the liberation you desire. {True freedom is found in surrendering your life to God and His ways.}
These are tough words but I hope they are ones you will prayerfully consider when listening and watching the world's path for women and deciding upon your own path...
Carla · 675 weeks ago
thank you for being His vessel.
Many Blessings
Carla <><
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susan2956 25p · 675 weeks ago
Blessings to you♥
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Fran · 675 weeks ago
I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.
1 Corinthians 7:8
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
Mark 12:25
For when they rise from the dead, they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.
Kaye · 675 weeks ago
There are many people who are not able to have children. For some reason or another, God does not allow these people to naturally have biological children. I do not think that this belittles their existence or even their purpose in life. If they want to be parents, there is the beautiful world of adoption. If they do not, then they are welcome to embrace the life God has given them. I in no way feel that they are less redeemed or worthy because their bodies are not able to reproduce as others' are.
I am probably one of the few readers of yours (at least that comment) that is a full time working mom and wife. I love my children. I love my husband. I do not think I am superwoman. I do not imagine that my life is perfect. I do not pretend my children are flawless. I do not conceive that the life I have is the only way to "do" life. There are many, many days that I wish I was at home with my little one...and at home each day when my son arrives home from school. I have even dreamed of homeschooling. In reality though, I don't know that I am cut out for homeschooling. There are days that I hate my job. There are also friends of mine who are stay at home moms who feel the same way about their situation - they get frustrated at home and wish they were working some days.
However, I think it is quite presumptuous of you to say, "It is impossible to have a full-time career, a solid marriage, secure and godly children, and a well-run home with nutritious food. Nobody is superhuman." I agree that no one is superhuman. I agree that no one person can do everything. But to say that because I am a full-time working mom that my life is somehow lacking in one of those other areas you named is quite an opinion for you to have. Here is my situation: I am a full-time working engineer. I have a solid marriage with a man who loves me and respects me. My children love God and love learning about God. Their father and I are far from perfect, but we strive daily to show them how to seek God and love others as we are commanded to do. My home is well run - the bills are paid on time every time; the house is clean; there is currently one load of laundry waiting on me; there is a fully stocked fridge of fresh and healthy food as well as some treats that may not be healthy but are also not altogether terrible - and those are limited in their consumption. The beds are made, the kids' chores are done, everyone is dressed, their homework is finished, we attend church services and functions at most every chance, and our children are also involved in extracurriculars. Additionally, we are not raising children who are materialistic. They are generous and loving. They are giving and fun. There is plenty of family time spent absent from technology. There are lots of cuddles to go around. There is plenty of husband-wife time. There is even room left for me to have a bubble bath with a good book at the end of the day.
So - although I am not perfect; my family is not perfect either - we're quite put together. We get our stuff done. We serve the Lord. And to say that this is not possible because I work away from the home, is quite a far reach from reality.
Tiffany · 675 weeks ago
Fran · 675 weeks ago
I guess my bottom line here is I think that if people are going to live by faith in their family planning decisions, I also think they need to be consistent with what the Bible says about working for your food and men providing for those in their households. Doing otherwise, to me, seems as silly as claiming you are against condoms for religious reasons but you are okay with engaging in pre-marital sex.
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Monika · 675 weeks ago
Anyway, I'm now leaving this blog and I'm quite sure you won't publish my comment. Or maybe you'll make another blog post of it, just as you did before. Your blog, your choice. Sad, though.
Lori · 675 weeks ago
This is just one of Paul's typical throw away lines where you go "huh?" When you understand what he was facing in term of false teaching, then it makes sense and you know he's just telling women that they need to walk with Jesus and live a godly life. Their overall safety is now in His hands instead of the goddess Artemis.