Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Showing Off Your Body

If you choose to wear shirts that show off your boobs, you will attract boys. To be more specific, you will attract the kind of boys that like to look down girls’ shirts. If you want to date a guy who likes to look at other girls’ boobs and chase skirts, then great job; keep it up. If you don’t want to date a guy who ogles at the breasts of other women, then maybe you should stop offering your own breasts up for the ogling. All attention is not equal. You think you want attention, but you don’t. You want respect. All attention is not equal.  {Kate Elizabeth Conner}

Many places that you go these days, you see immodestly dressed women.  I love what Beth Moore teaches.  Immodest women are mean women.  They like to turn other women's husbands on.  That's mean.  Remember that the next time you desire to dress immodestly.

As Christian women, our desire in life should be to honor Christ in all that we do and say.  Pleasing Him should be our heart's desire.  He commands women to be modest.  Work on making yourself beautiful on the inside.  Work on being loving, warm, and friendly.  Be generous, helpful, and forgiving.  Love Jesus and serve others.

If you want to attract a godly man, develop these qualities in you.  These come from the fruit of the Spirit that lives inside of you.  Did you know that when you dress immodestly, you blaspheme the Word of God?  That means you speak badly of God's Word.  Don't you want to speak wonderfully of Him and His Word?  Dress modestly.

Yes, there are immodestly dressed women many places.  You, young men, can avoid a lot of these places and you can learn to bounce your eyes.  The Bible admonishes us to flee sexual immorality, so flee it.  Don't fool around with it.  You will get burned if you do and God knows what He is talking about.

So women, let your smile and joyful spirit attract others to you.  Let them see Jesus so brightly inside of you that they will be drawn to Him.  Men want to marry joyful and happy women...

Also I desire that women should adorn themselves modestly and appropriately and sensibly in seemly apparel, not with elaborate hair arrangement or gold or pearls or expensive clothing, but by doing good deeds...
I Timothy 2:9,10

Let it be the hidden woman of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
I Peter 3:4