Friday, January 16, 2015

God Takes Pleasure in Your Simple Life


Does God take pleasure in you if you are "simply" a keeper at home? Jesus lived a simple life. His life was an example to us. He always had time for prayer and for serving others. Most people live so far from this type of life now in our busy society, but I believe God wants us to strive for more simplicity in life. "Let us believe that God is in all our simple deeds and learn to find Him there "{A. W. Tozer}.  Whether you are making a pie, working in your garden, teaching your children or fixing your husband's favorite dinner {all the simple things in life}, you can truly say, "I feel His pleasure" since these activities are what most women were made for by God.

So many Christian women have no idea what God's will is for their lives. They want to walk in obedience and glorify Him but they're confused. Is getting an expensive education and having a career what they should strive for? What does the Bible have to say? Search the Scriptures, women. Everything we need for life and godliness is in His Word. What is God's desire for women? Look up every verse that has to do with what God desires are for women and then you will know God's will for you.

Remember when you were young thinking that you must go to Africa and become a missionary to please the Lord? The Lord can use you right where you are, wherever you are. Most of us will walk quietly through life as mothers, daughters, sisters, wives, and friends. God doesn't always work in loud, profound ways. "And He has said to me,'My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.' Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me" 2 Corinthians 12:9.

Yes, life being a wife and mother can be very difficult. In order to not be overwhelmed, I suggest you simplify your life as much as possible, especially when you have young children. Simplify in the food you eat, in the things you own, and in homeschooling your children, if you homeschool them. The more you simplify, the more peace you will experience. You don't need to be involved in a lot of activities outside of the home when they take you away too much causing you to neglect your home and family.

If you don't have time to spend in God's Word daily, you're too busy. If you don't have time to be intimate with your husband, you're too busy. If you don't have time to fix nutritious food, rock a sick child, pray for those in need, keep your home relatively tidy, you're just too busy. No, your home doesn't need to be spotless and you don't have to go to Bible studies or minister outside of your home when you have young ones, but you do need to have time to minister to your husband and children. This is what God has called you to do. This is what He has called women to do. Know that He takes pleasure in you, women, even in the simple things of serving a family and home.

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I needed this today. Thank you, Lori!
So encouraging when sometimes it feels like your wrong staying at home when every other woman you know practices working outside the home. I long for a simple life and try to simplify everything we do. It's meaningful to have it confirmed that it is what God desires from me as I strongly feel this. And I love this picture!
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I needed to hear this today! Thank you!
Amen Cori. In the book of James, it says faith without deeds is dead. I used to think that meant I had to go to Africa or teach Sunday school at my church, etc. Now I realize that when I submit to and respect my husband, train up my kids, keep my house in order, etc, those are deeds too! And, when you devote yourself to your family instead of pursuing what you want in life, you are laying yourself down as a living sacrifice. So I am comforted knowing I am doing doing exactly what God wants me to do.
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HappyMama · 532 weeks ago

Such a lovely post! Thank you.
Thank you!!! I really needed this reminder today. Swimming against the flow in this culture can get discouraging at times with so many voices screaming that you are not doing enough. Not just from the world but even in the church. I really needed this today
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Lori, I just want to say thank you for encouraging us wives and mothers in our very special role. I've been reading your blog for almost two years now, and I've learned SO much. These things have always been in my Bible, but you helped open my eyes to the importance of them. This world really does put a lot of pressure on women to be everything BUT what we were meant to be. Thank you so much for taking your responsibility seriously as an "older" woman. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.
~Rachel
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Before the reformation the church taught of a hierarchy among followers of Christ and some occupations were considered holier than others. For example, a nun was considered holier than a woman who was a wife & mother. From the reformation came the idea that in Christ there is a priesthood of all believers, and through our individual vocations we each wear the “mask of God.” We use our gifts through our vocations in order to serve others, and in turn we are served by others through the performance of their vocations. A high paying job has no more dignity in the sight of God than a job that pays little or nothing, so practicing law is as important as changing a diaper, and vice versa. We should not use our gifts to bring glory to ourselves but to humbly serve others.

“But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, yet one body.” – 1 Corinthians 12:18-20
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This also applies to working in the church. Over the years , I've seen a lot of women really dedicated to the church that they attend. They are there- Sunday, Wednesday Friday and some Saturdays. Being busy is never good especially when it takes you away from your family, as a mother. I appreciate you mentioning everything !
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Lori, have you ever read Sharon Whites blog? www.thelegacyofhome. com
she is at home in Vermont. she has always been a mother at home. her readings are so calming and peaceful.
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I love this message, Lori! I have been reading your blog for several years now. Initially, I didn't agree with you about the need for a mother to stay home full time. I honestly thought I could do it all and have it all, but gradually your message began sinking in and I started seeing value of being at home with my children. Although, I work part time, my job is very stressful and I am never really off, and I am beginning to feel worn out from juggling work and family. I decided to take January off work to destress and focus on my family. This is the first time in many years that we're eating 90% homemade meals. The kids love it! My husband was very skeptical at first and wasn't very supportive, however he is beginning to see benefits of my staycation. My hope and prayers that by the start of next school year I will transition to be a stay at home mom.
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Dear Lori, This blog post is so very powerful! We are always telling ourselves at times and hearing it from everywhere that we must do more! A reply you left on someones comment was profound! Most women need to be home in larger time frames as that is the place where we grow that gentle quiet spirit. I can say from experience it is not in the world.
I can see and hear that this blog is hitting its mark!
May this next year bring many more women's hearts and souls back home. And may the husbands desire for them to be there! Thank you for standing for the truth!
Blessings, Roxy
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Do you think it is a good idea for the husband to be a homemaker and the wife a provider? I have seen more and more arrangements like this recently. Both spouses are happy with the arrangement and respect what the other one does. Each is good at his/her role. Their kids seem to be turning out great. I have a friend who is considering doing this.
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I think you wrote this post for me, Lori! I needed it today. I've been feeling so overwhelmed, tired, and like I do the same things every day with no results! I told my husband that I feel like there is no point to my day sometimes. I forget that the little things I do with my children are more important than I realize.
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I wanted to add that God will reward each according to his works (Corinthians).. Even if nobody appreciates that you stayed up til midnight preparing a meal for the next day, God saw it and will reward you for your work. His reward for doing his work is better than any paycheck. We can take comfort in that
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this was very nice to read. but what does God want those of us not married to do in the meantime? I don't have enough money to even visit my boyfriend in Canada. I'm tired all the time from work (usually so I'm too tired to try to garner some energy to study my Bible, which is also difficult to do on my own but I almost never get Sundays off). I don't have the means to learn how to become a talented homemaker from those who would teach me well (I try to look stuff up though). I would like to go back to school to maybe start a business at home when my kids are older but again, no money- plus, does God want me to? I haven't got a ton of talents- which degree should I go for? etc.
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good to be reminded that God is with us in every details of our lives no matter how big or small we are doing in our eyes;)
Loved this!!! Thank you! :)
Lori...what a precious reminder that being a mom is treasured profession in the eyes of the Lord. What a fabulous calling we have as wives and moms. Thank you for sharing good encouragement. Found you at Spiritual Sundays.
What a wonderful blog post.... and so needed in our world that looks down on stay at home moms. I have sure found all of this to be true in my life.... and I wouldn't trade it. :) Thank you.
A simple life is really a better way of life, and I completely agree with it!

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