Monday, July 27, 2015

Picking Up The Ball Older Women Have Dropped


Master's College is one of the very few colleges that offers a degree in Home Economics.  Many of you think homemaking, marriage and child raising should be taught in the home or church, according to this post I wrote over a year ago. I fully agree but many times it is not being taught by the family or the church. Older women are the ones who should be teaching but there are very few older women who are willing to teach young women to love their husbands, love their children, and be keepers at home.  Therefore, I think it is wonderful that Masters offers this degree.

What is more important than raising godly offspring; children that grow up to love Jesus, be salt and light to society, and then spend eternity in heaven? Can any other degree match the power of a wife and mother has on future generations and eternity?  I think not.

One mother's daughter went to Masters and got her degree in 
Home Economics. This is what she had to say about it ~

My daughter attended The Master's College and graduated with the degree Lori mentions.  She attended community college her first two years and finished out at Master's.  This helped with the cost.  Also, we paid nowhere near $20,000 a semester after scholarships, etc.  We homeschooled her through high school so she had a good start in "home economics," but as a young woman who desired a college degree yet did not have any career aspirations {She wanted to be a keeper at home and home with children.}, this was a wonderful choice!  She learned so much more than cooking or sewing, but was mentored and encouraged by godly women, was challenged by Dr. MacArthur, was pushed academically and had many opportunities to serve.

She is now married to a wonderful young man whom she met at Master's, is home with our sweet grandson, and already mentoring and encouraging those younger than her!  She is making a lovely home, decorating on a budget, fixing home-cooked meals, sewing some of her own clothes, helping friends plan their weddings, caring for her son, and being a helper to her husband.  She is enjoying using the gifts God has given her, and in her case, is very grateful for the opportunity to hold a college degree that prepared her for exactly what she wanted to do!

This is the class description at Master's College of the Home Economics Class which is now called Family and Consumer Sciences ~


Use time management skills in her home.
Manage the family finances.
Cook nutritious meals.
Practice hospitality.
Joyfully submit to her husband.
Raise her children in the "fear and admonition of the Lord"
{Ephesians 6:4}...

...so that the Word of God will not be discredited.

This sounds absolutely amazing to me!  If the older women have dropped the ball and so few take the time to teach young women, why not let a godly, Christian college pick it up and run with it? However, if you are an older woman, I encourage you to pick up the ball and begin teaching the young women in your life!

The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior 
as becomes holiness...teachers of good things.
Titus 2:3

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I think that is wonderful. And if Masters college is too far, I believe a degree in Accounting, Business, or Computers could be helpful to women hoping to help with a famy business. And any general studies degree- English, History, Math, etc... could be helpful to woman hoping to homeschool. It isn't required of course, but it isn't wrong. I know of one woman who married an inspiring lawyer, she got an online paralegal certificate in hopes of helping him in the future.

I respectful disagree with those who oppose all women going to college in all situations. If a woman is old enough to marry I would think they could handle community college or a university.
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
I know there are some who believe women should never go to college and I am not one of them. If a woman wants to get an education and have a career, I encourage them to go to a college that won't put them deep into debt and into a career that would be difficult to quit when they have babies since being home full-time to care for their husbands, children and homes is MUCH more important than any career. Also, I would NEVER send a child off to liberal universities to live in the dorm and learn many things that are contrary to God's Word.
Lori

Wow, what a great idea!,never knew there was a course such as this ANYWHERE!!!
Blessings
Helen UK
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
Thankfully, John MacArthur teaches and lives by truth!
There are several women I know that are babysitting their grandchildren. I am one of them. I am thankful that I am available to help, but I don't think of this as mentoring the younger women. I think I have dropped the ball on mentoring. My schedule is full time babysitting, providing transportation to appointments and attending sporting events. I agree that the older women in the church are to mentor the younger women. But many of the older ones are using their time and energy five or six days a week to help their families. Even though I am helping with childcare, it's not mentoring, encouraging the young women to be home. But I would rather my grandchildren be in my care than a babysitter or a daycare.
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
Linda,

It is a sad situation when grandmothers need to raise their children's children. Mothers need to be with their children. My mother watched my first daughter for the first 2 years of her life and it was so difficult on all of us. It was completely unnatural for me to be away from my baby.
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Mary Ellen · 504 weeks ago

That's pretty cool that the college actually offers a degree in homemaking. Very unique!!! ...and it's twice an advantage, because while a gal would be learning valuable skills, she's also exposed to a ton of potential husbands.... and let's be honest: half the time I seriously think chicks go to college to find a husband as much as they go for the education
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
You're right, Mary Ellen. Going to a Christian college is a great place to meet godly men. This is where I met Ken!
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Blessed Mama · 504 weeks ago

I just found this book browsing on Amazon last night- The Christian Homemaker's Handbook and it looked great! Have you read it? One of the authors teaches homemaking classes at a college other than the Masters College. I think there are more Christian colleges that have homemaking/home economics degrees than just Master's College (just for others who have daughters interested but don't live in California). I remember seeing a few when I was younger looking around. I think there was a Baptist Bible college on the East coast that had a home economics program too and maybe one in Texas.
I majored in Family and Consumer Science. It's offered at most colleges here in Texas, although the programs are all very small. It was really helpful learning about personal finance and nutrition, but I took on debt to get my degree, so it set me back more than it helped me. It would have been better if I had a godly older woman fill that role instead of my professors, but if you are able to do it without debt, it can give a better understanding of some homemaking tasks.
Another aspect to point out is that a lot of ladies who learn these homemaking skills often find that their skills are in great demand -- if you can sew, you suddenly find people who would like you to make clothes for their daughters because they can't make them themselves. If you can make soap or cheese or anything like that, it's super popular and you can make quite the business out of it; everybody wants it! It's IN! I was shocked at how much I could make by sewing skirts for girls that were full enough and long enough. All the custom skirts they could find were too short or too straight; I made them fuller and longer -- wow! Little girls' dresses? Everybody wants more choices than what's in the stores, and so many people can't sew because they never learned. They are -- dare I say it -- helpless with all their advanced degrees.
I would love to take that course!! But I think Australia is too far lol.
My major was Family and Consumer Science and my emphasis was in early childhood development. I can't tell you how much this has come in handy being a mom! :)
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happygrandma · 504 weeks ago

I can't help wondering if this is the best use of a young person's money. High schools teach these homemaking and consumer science skills for free, and wouldn't most homeschooling mothers make them part of the curriculum? A homeschooler who doesn't have the math skills to plan a budget or the childhood development knowledge for ECE should probably not be homeschooling precious children. And these days you can learn just about any practical skill on Youtube. We learned how to fix our weed eater and how to change wornout wheels on rolling luggage with just a few minutes of internet searching and saved all kinds of money.

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