Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Feminism has Allowed Men in Women's Bathrooms


There's a show called "Coming Home" about military men and women coming home after many months of being away when they first see their husband or wife and children. It is extremely touching and almost always brings me to tears of joy. In one show, a woman came home and her husband met her at the airport. They feel into each other's arms crying and holding each other tightly. Afterwards, they got into the car to get to their daughter's soccer match where the mother would surprise her. The minute her daughter saw her she ran to her mother and embraced her crying. The daughter continued crying {she was in junior high school} and her mother asked her, "What's wrong? Why do you keep crying?" The daughter replied, "You weren't here for me to talk with you and help me when I have problems and share with you. I need you here with me!"

Of course, she needs her mother. Why in the world would a mother choose to leave her children for months at a time when she has the choice to not leave them? Why women want to fight in the military I will NEVER understand. Most shows you watch these days have at least one woman saying, "A woman should be able to do anything a man does" and everyone claps; women wanting to be men because they are not content being women, the way God designed them to be.

In an article I read recently, a couple boasted about how great their young child was doing in daycare all day long. Right after reading this, I saw pictures of a little boy on Facebook who had bruises all over his face from being in daycare and being hit by the caregiver. Babies need their mothers at home to bond with and be cared for. Young children need mothers at home to discipline and teach them. Older children need mothers at home to protect them. Teenagers need mothers at home for guidance and someone to talk with. While children are living at home, they need a mother in the home.

This young teenager of the military mother was cheated out of having her mother at home since she decided being in the military was more important. Being in the military is a man's job. In the Bible, only men 20 years old and older could be in the military. It's always been just been men in the military until just recently and it is a result of women wanting to be men. Now women are crying foul when men want to become women and compete in the Olympics as women. Hey, if we're equal and the same, there should be no problem with this, right?

If women can be firemen, policemen, and be in the military {all jobs that are men's jobs when you look at a their physical makeup and strength}, then women shouldn't be surprised when men want to become women and use their restrooms and locker rooms. We are reaping the foolishness of feminism; short term gain for long term pain.

God designed women to be in the home and to be under the protection of men. When women decide to go against God's designed role for them and strive to be the same as men, they can't expect good to come out of it, only devastation: empty homes, lock-key children, daycare, divorces, loneliness, teenagers without mothers to share life with, etc. As godly women, go home if at all possible, be content as a woman, and do what the Lord has called you to do.

Then Amaziah assembled the men of Judah and set them by fathers' houses under commanders of thousands and of hundreds for all Judah and Benjamin. He mustered those twenty years old and upward, and found that they were 300,000 choice men, fit for war, able to handle spear and shield. He hired also 100,000 mighty men of valor from Israel for 100 talents of silver.
2 Chronicles 25:5, 6

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Because of divorce, I was one of those children that was left to her own devices. I didn't have a mother at home from a young age and thereafter, and I was raised by my dad who worked constantly running his own business. Back then, it wasn't common at all for single men to raise children on their own. While my dad did the best he could, not having a mother to rely on was horrible. I wouldn't wish that on anyone! I agree...mothers belong at home with their children. When there is no one at home to guard and protect, children will almost always find trouble. Because of this, I knew that when I had children of my own, I would do whatever it took to be home with them, raising them and keeping watch over them.
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There is such a deep longing in the heart of each child for their mother to be with them. Children feel abandoned when mothers leave all day or for good. It's not the way God intended for it to be and all children know this to be true. I'm sorry for what you went through as a child, Mrs. G., but thankfully you learned from it to do the opposite instead of the same.
Very interesting post, Lori! I do not agree with the whole gender identity equality thing in the bathrooms, or elsewhere. However, God does view as as equals, helpmates, and partners. We are not equal in our roles or strengths, but we are both equally important to God, in just the way that He made us. Thanks for being a Christian and standing up for what's right. I feel very blessed that I am able to work from home these days. My children still need me at home and I am glad that they are at the age where they actually still want me around.
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Children always want their mother at home, Christie. It's instinctive for them. A home is a home with a mother in it. She is the one who makes in warm. You are blessed!
I completely agree Lori! :) You wrote what my heart has felt completely! Thank you!
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You're welcome, Katy.
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Lady Virtue · 473 weeks ago

This is another great post that gets right to the heart of what feminism is: rebellion and discontentment. We ladies would do well to respect the fact that God made men first (I Tim. 2:13) and made us the weaker vessel (I Peter 3:7) so we could be wives and mothers guiding the house (I Tim. 5:14). Most men want women to be feminine, as they recognize that makes us distinct and different from them. Loud, aggressive, fiercely competitive women--as feminism urges women to be--are neither feminine nor attractive.
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Yes Lady Virtue. My husband sees that rebellion every day. He is the supervisor of a department of 10 men and 2 women. He says the women are the ones that give him the most trouble and disrupt the entire department. He comes home so stressed and is thankful to come home to a feminine wife who has a good meal waiting for him. Feminism has hurt women, men and children.
This is sadly very common, Lisa B.
Completely agree here!!! Yes! Thank you for writing this.
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You're welcome, Diana.
Hmmmmm I'm not sure that transgender people are the result of feminism, but I absolutely agree with the rest of your post! Children of all ages need their mothers at home!

Here in NZ we have "family" bathrooms, where there are baby facilities (change table, feeding area, microwave etc. and a separate lockable toilet) and both gender-specific and gender-neutral bathrooms. Because of the availability of these facilities, I would feel very uncomfortable as a woman, with having a man (transgender woman) using the ladies bathroom. Even though there are separate lockable cubicles, it just feels wrong, to me.
I cannot fathom that women see it as a victory that they are permitted to fight in war. It is a total loss for women and society. And totally delusional to believe that women can fight the male enemy.
In case of a defensive war, if there's some woman who qualified and want to fight (i mean in combat) and accepting all risks, that's could be acceptable (based on my country's history in attaining it's Independence in the 1940s)

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