Thursday, March 10, 2016

Forever Worried Homemakers


Yes, we are living in scary days in America with the possibility of Trump or Hillary becoming our President. Last week, I didn’t listen to any news programs. I went cold turkey because it was so depressing. Guess what, my life was peaceful and without anxious thoughts. Even Dennis Prager, who is a political radio show pundit, said that our lives are not supposed to be about politics! Amen. When Paul wrote about women loving and obeying their husbands, loving their children and being keepers at home, I’m sure the political climate was much worse than ours. Our lives are NOT about politics!

Lady Lydia wrote a great post about this subject several years ago since she probably saw how politics was consuming and frightening many women. Women have told me they’re afraid to bring children into this world. Remember, God told us to not fear many times in the Bible. He is still on His throne and is sovereign over all.

Lady Lydia wrote,I have discovered that most of the things we believe, which has come from the news media are hyped up suppositions, and even total lies, which keep the homemaker forever worried and uncertain, and do nothing to aid in achieving the neat and tidy house, beautiful home, and loving, loyal family every woman really desires deep down in her heart. To my mind, all official media reports are lies until proven true.

Radio and television's continuous assault on your hearing and your nerves, can cause you to lose interest in making meals special, making a bed up beautifully, sewing a dress, shopping for things to improve the home or developing your talents. Women are designed by God to be loyal to their families and to feel drawn to house and home, but this loyalty can be splintered when the mind is distracted by news reports that produce continual fear.

The goal is to live the way you teach, and bring more people out of the kingdom of darkness, into the kingdom of light {Colossians 1:13}. That is the best way to conquer. Get more people on your side. Then, there will be more of you and less of them.

A woman commented on this post: "Lydia, this is an excellent post, once again! Long ago, I made a decision to quit watching soap operas. My marriage expectations and thoughts are more real to God's word without those addictive shows. Then, a few years ago, I decided to stop watching the news. I knew if it were really important, I'd hear about it. Again, peace was the reward. This year, I have decided to 'unsubscribe' from about a dozen conservative political emails, as you have said here. So much less stress!

I agree with it all, Lydia. We have enough to do. To add a story, I remember hearing a woman tell of being trapped in enemy land when she was a child. Her father was in a dangerous position in that country. Sometimes, they had to go into hiding in dark small places, but her mother somehow managed to keep the home running smoothly and raise the children without a real knowledge of the dangers around them. I applaud that mother. What a great example that mother was to all of us."

There is so much wisdom here! We are called to not fret nor get into a panic over what is happening in the world. We are to be busy at home keeping our homes clean and tidy, loving our husbands deeply and raising godly offspring. This is how we fight the prince of the power of the air; not by worrying or stop doing what the Lord has called women to do.

I used to watch soap operas many years ago and felt completely unfulfilled and dissatisfied after watching them. I used to listen to the radio conservative talkers and felt discouraged afterwards. I read God's Word and am uplifted, convicted, challenged and encouraged. We are to fill our minds with the Word of God and our lives with what He wants us to do, not with all of the happenings in our world. We are much more effective wives and mothers when we do this; for this pleases the Lord!

When it comes to the Presidency, pray about it. Hand it over to the Lord since we have no ability to change it. Even our one little vote for a righteous man won't accomplish much, but God promises that our prayers will {James 5:16}.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
Philippians 4:6

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Such a good and needed post today. You wrote, "Women have told me they’re afraid to bring children into this world." When we believe this, we are believing a lie from Satan. Salvation always comes through a baby' baby Moses, Baby Samuel (all the prophets really) and of course Baby Jesus. God told us to multiply and be fruitful and if we are honest with ourselves, a lot of the current political state of our country could have been completely avoided if Christians actually heeded God's Word instead of the world's lies. If the past generation hadn't been all about birth control the Christians would have outnumbered everyone else. If our generation stops trying to live the "American Dream" and starts procreating, in one generation we could turn America back around. But this fantasy world that we erroneously believe, where we can all have 2.5 children, live in the suburbs while sending them to great public schools, isn't real. It will land us exactly where we are now, in a world that denies the power of God.
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Thank you for this encouraging post again! I may print it out to give to a friend of mine who doesn't have a computer.
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Thank you so much for this post! I'm printing it, and will be re-reading it.
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Regular reader · 472 weeks ago

Just a side note, Lori, have you ever looked up in the Bible how many times it says not to fear? I know you are a lover of truth and I just have to question if the number 365 is actually true. My previous pastor has said the same thing awhile back, and while I didn't actually have the time to study it, I did look it up online and many people said when you look it up, it actually refers to the idea many more times than that! Perhaps it's just a nice saying going around the Internet. Not sure of the truth, but I think it would an interesting thing to study out.

No matter what, we know we are not to fear! There is no question there... Blessings to you! Your ministry is such a blessing to me.
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Becky Groff · 472 weeks ago

So glad you put this up from yesterdays FB. When I posted it, I wasn't sure many women would listen and take it to heart. It is easy to get off balance with the political and economic news of today. Instead of looking around us, we must look UP!!
Becky
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I also was thinking, this can apply to almost anything. Recently, we had some tragic family news. It can rob your time thinking of how can we help them and come too emotionally involved. I think we need to pray and help where we can, but continue doing our homemaking duties. So this is a reminder that I needed this not for political but for other things that get in our way.

Satan can rob us not just with political things, but with anything!
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This is me!! I have a tendency to over-think, over-investigate, over-extrapolate, and FEAR-FEAR-FEAR becomes my mindset instead of loving my family. Thank you for these reminders.
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As John Macarthur says in his book "Found: God's Peace", "The real challenge of Christian living is not to eliminate every uncomfortable circumstance from our lives, but to trust our sovereign, wise, good and powerful God in the midst of every situation. Things that might trouble us, such as the way we look, the way others treat us, or where we live or work, can actually be a source of strength, not weakness".

We live in an imperfect world, we can't avoid this — we are surrounded by things that can and will cause anxiety. We need to allow God to do His perfect work in us —In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world. (John 16:33)
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"Our Home of Many Blessings" just recommended your blog, and I'm so excited to check it out! It looks like it's full of Scripture, and that's what I'm looking for - other Bible bloggers. :) I'll be back!
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Thank you so much for this....I love visiting this inspiring blog...
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What is soap opera? We never had Tv in our home where I grew up and now we do not have Tv as well.
Such an encouraging post that I needed to read today. Thank you!
I don't have so much in the way of political worries as it's not elections here for us, but there's plenty else for me to worry about, things that I have virtually no control over, yet I worry about it all the same.
Lydia's motto is a great one to live by: that media is lies until proven otherwise. What a great thought! I need to remember it.
This blessed me so much today, Lori. Thank you! I tend to worry endlessly about things...finances, sick children, my family in general. I do notice though that when I focus on the home and really stay present in the moment, it takes my mind off of things. It just goes to show that we are meant to give our full attention to our family and in our home duties, and to not focus on things that we can't change or have no control over. The only one who has the ultimate control is God, after all.

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